Women or "We Men"??

Welcome to the age of un-innocence. Or so to say there's no time for love. These days people are so busy engrossed in other aspects of their life that  asking someone, "how's your love life" seems a bit futile or so to say cupid has taken a hike! 

People are getting so ambitious and busy that no one has the leisure for elaborate romance. We're always looking for stress busters or quick flings that do not hinder in our professional lives. Its often an arrangement of parasites; the guy and the gal kinda agree on this speed dating, no emotional nonsense relationship.

Why are there so many great unmarried women, and no great unmarried men? From a woman's perspective,men are more like affairs we try to forget as quickly as possible. We don't expect a lot of candy floss, roses, long drives or late night conversations. Its more of quick coffees, to-the-point talks and stress busting in any which way which satisfies both. Also, the more successful ones are quite choosy as to whom they date and ultimately marry. No one settles for a short or bald or old or less earning guy. Quite a cut-throat theory but sadly proven true. According to the survey, the short, fat, poor ones are equally obnoxious. They have some sorta alternate dimensional male ego themselves. Then again these fat pigs, no matter how bloated they are, want their wives to be stick thin!! Double chinned, double standards!! Then comes the overtly emotional guys, who want to do things together, want to keep a tab on you that it borderlines on obsessiveness!! Ufff!!

But still a large 60% of the guys are always emotionally detached. So keeping that theory in mind, do all men secretly want their women promiscuous and emotionally detached? What is it to feel like a man in a relationship? I mean to just not bother so much about the emotional investment? To enjoy the physical rather than the emotional aspects of a relationship? Men can keep aside emotional drama and concentrate on the physical aspects of a relationship whereas women at some point in time get attached and tend to have further expectations out of what is a mere fling to the men. 

The theory that women can date like men with no emotional bonding what so ever can be expected out of the metros in our country. Whereas the same application is totally invalid to the rurals as they are instilled with completely different set of values. Women should take charge or be in control as to how they want to steer a certain relationship, since in our country we have always grown up learning that the man needs to be in charge. Its about time we turned the tables aorund and experience a whole new outlook towards the progress of our relationships. No matter where or how, we women need to take charge cause there's no clan like "Womania" which is a mania and which has man em'bed'ded in it!! (pun intended)

--- Colour Bomb ^_^